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pamellajoy
You hop from relationship to relationship every 3 or 4 months thinking you’ll find meaning in your life through someone else but you won’t. Not until you start loving yourself. You claim you are in love with every single person you call your significant other within the first week but then you guys break up and you’re suddenly in love with someone else a few weeks later. It’s not love - I promise you, it’s not love. You can’t love anyone until you have finally accepted yourself and you won’t find that kind of acceptance in anyone else.. if anything, getting into all those relationships and putting that responsibility on someone else just to get yourself disappointed in the end is only making things worse for you.. it’s fine for now because you still have some dignity in you, but soon enough you’re going to break and wonder why none of your relationships last. stop fooling yourself into thinking you’re in love and that’s the only way that you’ll be happy. You’re hurting yourself, C. you’re probably wondering why I still check up on you but it’s because (no offence) but I find your life interesting to read about.. seeing you jump from relationship to relationship then the little depression phases you have for a few weeks, then you’re back up with a brand new girl lol. This is not the way to go and you know it and your friends should be telling you the same thing because in every one of your relationships, you’ve gone way too far… that’s also why people tend to stray a bit because you jump right in, head first expecting them to do the same. Real love is never rushed, if it’s meant to be it’ll happen. You on the other hand automatically tell them you love them, introduce them to all your friends and family within the first two weeks of dating and expect them to be okay with it. Also if this is really the cycle you go through, your friends shouldn’t just sit there and let you do this to yourself… they should be talking shit to you and trying to get you to open your eyes because you are a mess.. C, this is not love.
